We often can learn from the experiences of others, and we should take advantage of those opportunities (do not, however, misinterpret this to mean that you should always wait for someone else to try something new first!). Spend some time reflecting on a time when you observed someone close to you taking initiative in spite of fear.
What was the situation?
How did they handle it?
What was the result?
What did you learn from watching them go through this experience?
Now, think of a situation you are currently faced with in which you need to take initiative and have some fear about moving forward. Get in touch with the person from today’s exercise and tell them the situation you are in. As them for guidance on how they would handle it. Then, spend some time in reflection about what they’ve shared with you. In your journal, note some of the recommendations you think are worth following through on. Consider the risks, implications, consequences, and benefits associated with any of the actions you might take. Then, make a decision about moving forward.
What value did you receive through someone else’s experience? And what value do you place on having them as a trusted confidant?
It’s good to know we have support when faced with significant decisions and challenges, and can deal with them before they grow into something more unmanageable!
